Episode 54 - DATING APPS -Dating app dread?  How to find the pot of gold at the end of the dating app rainbow - without hating the journey along the way
Louise Rumball Louise Rumball

Episode 54 - DATING APPS -Dating app dread?  How to find the pot of gold at the end of the dating app rainbow - without hating the journey along the way

Do you hate dating apps? Do you think people are lazy? Never reply? Always think there are more fish in the sea? Always keep meeting useless people and heading back to the apps?

Louise talks with Dr Tari Mack, clinical psychologist and relationship expert on how to make these damn apps work for you.

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Episode 45 - CHEATING - Em Rata showed us that *anyone* can get cheated on. How can you build a bullet proof relationship that will avoid infidelity?
Louise Rumball Louise Rumball

Episode 45 - CHEATING - Em Rata showed us that *anyone* can get cheated on. How can you build a bullet proof relationship that will avoid infidelity?

In light of the recent news that beautiful specimen Em Rata got cheated on, the whole world is shouting 'WTF'... and we are too. People are thinking - if it could happen to her, then it could happen to anyone, and are any of us truly safe from the big bad concept of infidelity and a partner being unfaithful?

It is thought that 1 in 4 adults are unfaithful at some point in their life and in today’s episode, Louise & clinical psychologist Dr Tari Mack go deep into why people cheat, but perhaps more importantly and interestingly - how you can build a relationship that will withstand the likelihood of infidelity.

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Episode 44 - DATING - You only date or chase emotionally unavailable people, if you are emotionally unavailable too. Discussing subconscious blocks to finding love
Louise Rumball Louise Rumball

Episode 44 - DATING - You only date or chase emotionally unavailable people, if you are emotionally unavailable too. Discussing subconscious blocks to finding love

Constantly chasing after hot and cold men and women? One moment they are interested, the next they aren’t? They say they want to hang out but then they disappear? You get close, then they pull back. This episode is for you - and we have one hard truth to swallow: you only date or chase emotionally unavailable people, if you are emotionally unavailable too.

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Episode 42 - DATING - The fearful avoidant attachment style, how to communicate without being toxic and how to know if your partner is ever going to change
Louise Rumball Louise Rumball

Episode 42 - DATING - The fearful avoidant attachment style, how to communicate without being toxic and how to know if your partner is ever going to change

The attachment style - fearful avoidant, also known as ‘disorganized’ is often overlooked. Do you feel like you want to be close to people and want their love, but when you get close, you feel like it is a dangerous space to be in? Maybe you push people away before they can push you away, but deep down want to be and feel loved? Did you experience deeply stressful, neglectful or abusive situations as a child?

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Episode 41 - DATING - Are they poor at communication or are they avoidantly attached? Exploring the Avoidant Attachment Style
Louise Rumball Louise Rumball

Episode 41 - DATING - Are they poor at communication or are they avoidantly attached? Exploring the Avoidant Attachment Style

Ever dated an avoidant man or woman? They disappear when conflict starts or a conversation heats up? You feel like you get close to them, but never quite fully there? Maybe you are one yourself and other people feel ‘too needy, too much’, or that being independent and alone is safer and less hectic.

Maybe you don't see the point in talking about your feelings, don't like to depend on others for help, think relationships are a lot of work or just prefer 'being mysterious?'

If this is you, or it sounds like your partner, this episode is for you. After the success of our anxious attachment series, we know you will take deep value from this episode

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